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2016.11.06 11:09 TheoZeroni HuffPost article - How to deal with Mormon Missionaries - what additions would you make?
No MoneyMette writes openly about how no tithing money is set aside for these kids, and they’re totally skint to the extent they often struggle to eat healthily or “have no money/miles at the end of the month for food.”
No stomach for debateThere’s a line in there about them having “VERY little training in theology or religion” only and will regurgitate lessons taught to them at the Missionairy Training Centre or Siminary. “They’re not interested in sparring with people about religious history or doctrine.” I think this is true though the way it is phrased I think is aimed to take pity on them so as not to challenge their loyalty to church doctrine, though I think that is all the more reason to plant seeds of critical thinking.
IndoctrinatedThen there’s the indoctrination of not being able to call home, “being watched over by a Mission President and his wife, kind of a mission 'Mom' and 'Dad,' who watch over them, call them to talk about problems, and enforce a lot of the strictest rules in hopes of preventing the biggest problems they see happening (the elders and sisters dating, for instance, is a big no-no).”
A lack of individual agency"Mormon missionaries are supposed to be with their companions. All the time. Every day. They can’t go anywhere without their companion. Yes, I’m serious about this. When my daughter came home, it took her weeks to get used to the idea that she could go places on her own.”
Under a tremendous amount of cultural pressureFinally she deals with the “Young men who don’t go or go home early suffer stigmas for the rest of their lives… there is a lot of cultural pressure to go, especially for young men. Not every Mormon missionary is gung-ho and some are suffering with real mental illnesses, diagnosed or undiagnosed… This is real and not something I’m particularly proud of when it comes to Mormonism."
In summaryShe talks about it being comparable to going away to Boot Camp, would that make mormom membership war? I’m sure you all have your own summary of your time, you can comment below if you like.
Dont lead them onSo then there is a lot of advice written about being honest and upfront about whether you want to learn about Mormonism, how much you want to know, so they “can decide for themselves then if they have time just trying to build goodwill with non-members rather than trying to find someone who might be more genuinely interested in joining.”
Basically they’re going to be stressed about filling enough quotas that week, help them cheat“Ask them about genealogy. Even if you’re not interested in hearing about the “gospel,” missionaries can and will show you how to use the Mormon church’s genealogical resources, which are huge. It counts as missionary work even if you’re just researching your family history.”
Offer them encouragment, a drink, a word of advice, a ride“Smile and give some words of encouragement... Watch out for them or give them some words of warning if you feel that it is necessary and they are, for instance, going into a dangerous neighborhood... You can offer to give them a ride somewhere if you see them walking. Especially if it’s the end of the month and they’re going a long distance, they may not be allowed to use their car if they’ve already gone too many miles in it.”
Help them get enough to eat!“Mormon missionaries often eat only at the homes of members or those who invite them over to teach. This means they are often at the whim of other people’s tastes. It can be very difficult for picky eaters or for anyone who wants to eat healthy
Befreind them!"Mormon missionaries aren’t supposed to talk to family and friends basically for the course of their entire mission. For sisters, that’s 18 months; for elders, it’s two years. That’s a long time for kids this age to go without family contact. They can email once a week only. And they get to Skype or make a phone call on Christmas and Mother’s Day. That’s it. They can be very lonely and crave some kind of positive human contact... They really can’t just sit down at a restaurant to go to lunch unless they’re teaching the gospel. They can’t go to movies or other entertainment.”
2012.09.21 06:05 iamtotalcrap So some mormoms came to my door today... [self]
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